I had never tried any type of anal play before, weather during sex or by myself. My boyfriend was pressuring me to open up my backdoor, but I knew that I would need to get comfortable with the whole idea first. I’ve always been the type to prepare, or over prepare, for any situation, whether it’s packing 15 pairs of underwear for a three-day trip, or spending days at school studying for a small quiz, so I decided to play around a little by myself first.
I decided the best way to prepare for anal sex would be with a small toy. Being unfamiliar with the products available I turned to the computer so I would have the luxury of browsing at my own pace. Before long I came to my local sex toy shop, and began to search for something that didn’t feel intimidating in either size or function. I found what I was looking for with the 10 Function Risque – Pink. It vibrated, was small, and at around $30 was the perfect price.
I was apprehensive to try it when it arrived, having never played with anything of its sort before. I followed the instructions which came with it and applied some water-based lubrication, then started out slowly. To my extreme surprise, after I got used to the sensation I was not only comfortable with it, but I loved it. It definitely got me more comfortable with the idea of anal sex, and now I have an extra toy to play with when I’m by myself, or to add to our lovemaking.
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