Do you sometimes secretly wish that there was a magic potion that could make him fall for you? Do you yearn for the ability to translate those exciting first dates into long-lasting love? Is there some formula which can ensure that he never looks at another woman again?
Thanks to Adina for some hints too!
Well, all you need to do is pay attention to his likes and dislikes, and you’ll soon see a relationship turning into something fantastic and more serious.
What’s most important is that you project an image of yourself which is loving and caring. For that you must learn to love yourself first. Unless you start respecting your own life and build some self-esteem, long-lasting serious relationships will be difficult to come by. Your boyfriend may tell you that you are sexy, funny, fantastic, exciting, awesome and special. But unless you believe his every word, it’s not going to help much.
Then, pay attention to communication. Understand what makes both of you tick. Learn about the things he likes and carry out some research to be able to participate in conversations related to his interest. You have no idea how much he’ll appreciate your efforts to become a part of the things he loves.
Last but not the least, learn to be just yourself. There is no need to create an image of yourself that is nothing but an elaborate lie. Things do come out in the open sooner or later. Your lover must love you for the person you are and not for who you want to be.